What to do if your friend is dating a loser
She thinks her friend might have suspected a lack of enthusiasm, anyway, as Wiedner wasn't going on about how much she liked the guy, which she normally would.
When to say something In Weinstein's opinion, the foremost question driving the decision to intervene is whether the jerky behavior is simply distasteful, or actually harmful — such as physical or emotional abuse, sexist or racist comments, driving drunk and making passes at other people.
Her articles on Love tie in her personal experiences while exploring the early stages of dating and the single life.
For two years, Landis Wiedner watched a girlfriend settle for what she thought was an "awful" relationship."It always seemed like she was mothering him," Wiedner, 29, recalls.
Not to hook her up, but to show her the difference between great men and her not-so-great boyfriend.
Women often make excuses for the men in their lives.
Catching your friend's mate at a bar with someone else might have an innocent back story, he said, and people should get the benefit of the doubt before you start sowing seeds of doubt.
If the guy's just slightly irritating then you're probably being a bit selfish, and it's not worth saying anything to upset your friend just because you'd rather not waste your precious life seconds on him.