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PHOEBE: Yeah, I've seen it all and-STEPHANIE: So what race were all these girls? ELIZABETH: I think we were able to bond over a shared experience a really poor experience. STEPHANIE: A while ago, I also looked up John’s OKCupid account. His profile said he was interested in a relationship. And if I hadn’t don’t know, if I hadn’t known, if I hadn’t talked to these girls, it could have been me. She wrote to me to tell me to watch out, that the guy had yellow fever and would try to hit on me. And really soon after, I matched with another dude on a dating website, who messaged me that he had to warn me about something and told me to call him. Our website is replyall.limo, which was designed in partnership with Athletics. They are also covering race and dating, but from an entirely different perspective.
They were able to help me heal a lot better than a lot of my friends because they knew exactly what I was going through. I mean, I was in a relationship when I first met Suzanne, so like the threat was still kind of theoretical. But also like, just to play devil’s advocate here, a lot of people tend to date people of one race, like most people have a type. And people are always telling me like, what's the problem, what if I have a preference for Jewish girls?
I'm just, if you met John you would just think he was one of the sweetest guys. STEPHANIE: Phoebe loved John, but after watching him betray her over and over again, she broke up with him. STEPHANIE: What's the self-preservation aspect of it? PHOEBE: Yellow fever, serial dater, cheaters, manipulators. STEPHANIE: I totally use the same method Phoebe does, because in my experience in confronting guys with yellow fever, I don’t want to date guys who’ve dated more than two Asian girls before me. And because of the way the world works now, I generally don't go on dates. It just seems too dangerous, too full of skeezeballs, and it seems, it's too easy for people who would use me to find me. I mean, it’s the same thing with any kind of heartbreak. STEPHANIE: It’s been a couple months since I deleted all my dating apps and the fear has subsided since then.
And then to just suddenly very quickly all of a sudden find out that they’re cheating on you, in real time, that was a lot to take in. She was at his apartment, he wasn’t there, she sent him a text, Hey honey, where are you. STEPHANIE: And, of course, he’s got a girl with him. In their time together though, she’d actually seen John accumulate two cycles of women. CALLER: You know it’s better for me the less girls walking around the city spreading genital herpes, I've avoided it thus far so I'd like to continue that trend. What if he was making up a story so he could take advantage of my fears about yellow fever and try to be a hero so he could hit on me too? PJ: Okay so this is a little bit weird but so my girlfriend is Chinese. I haven’t been on a date since I deleted all my dating apps. So when I told Phoebe about not going on any dates she said, that's not a solution. On the internet, it was so easy for men to look at my picture and see a doe in a field of dandelions. Where they will have to come out from behind their screens.
This week, producer Stephanie Foo tells a story about dating online that is unlike any we've ever heard before. But this guy she met, let’s call him John, right from the beginning, John was really warm. He offered her the keys to his apartment really early on in their relationship, which surprised her.
Xero Mailchimp ALEX GOLDMAN: From Gimlet, this is Reply All, a show about the Internet. And everyone knows that when it comes to online dating people can be really non-committal, unwilling to settle down.
Crucially, this survey did not refer to mosquitoes but to straight men buzzing around dating sites, who showed a marked preference for Asian women. Approximately 20 percent of the population is innately more attractive to these insects, which prefer biting (literally) hot women who wear black clothing and/or have black hair.
But mosquitoes are interested in women like me for simple chemical reasons. For the time being, let’s put aside the fact that the mosquitoes doing the biting are all female, and focus on what happens when a mosquito-magnet gets bitten.
Suzanne lets herself in and to kill time, she goes on his computer, starts working on a resume she’d been touching up and she sees this folder labeled Elizabeth hat’s just been updated. STEPHANIE: Suzanne is furious, but more than anything, she feels like she just needs to know more. It looks like they’ve never met, but he’s making plans with her to meet that week.It also refers to the fetishization of Asian women.These two afflictions spread for the same reason: high concentrations of restless people living in urban centers. So far, scientists haven’t even managed to deconstruct the motives of actual mosquitoes, though they tested the theory that some people are biologically mosquito magnets -- such as yours truly, who also happens to be an Asian female – and discovered that it’s true.A few months ago, an alarming survey suggested that "Yellow Fever" is more widespread than previously suspected.
Yellow Fever is a potentially fatal disease carried by mosquitoes. And one of the things about doing a show about the internet is that people are often suggesting that you do stories about online dating, and we often choose not to, and then a few weeks ago our friend Stephanie Foo who's normally a producer at This American Life that was unlike any online dating story that either of us had ever heard. STEPHANIE FOO: So a couple years ago, I interviewed this girl. She lives in San Francisco and she’d met this really cute guy on Ok Cupid.SUZANNE: He just had a way of taking really ordinary little situations and just making them fun and playful and was very thoughtful with like making me breakfast, would hide my favorite snacks in my purse and was just a really sweet, really sweet, loyal person and he was actually one of the best boyfriends I've ever had. And he gave her a little shelf for her stuff in his apartment. He even included her in a bunch of his domestic decision-making.SUZANNE: We spent a lot of time comparing text messages, timelines... ALEX: He also speaks in dumb superhero platitudes too. But last year, I actually became single for the first time in a long time and I went on dating sites. And I'm like, okay, Google image search Jewish girl and Google image search Asian girl. ALEX: Jewish girls: there's a lot of pictures of Anne Frank, Julia Louis Dreyfuss... PJ: Like if you had never met an Asian woman in your life and you were an alien and you had to learn about them from Google image search, it would be like: sometimes they are toddlers but they quickly mature into innocent sexy women in fields and that’s how they spend their lives. I was in a bikini in a field this morning but like-PJ: Do you have a preferred field that you like?